Archive | February 2015

To Be One With Your Soul, You Need To Be Comfortable

Man, what a weird post name! That’s exactly what I thought when I wrote it. But don’t worry it will make sense soon.

I am a man who loves meditation. Not only meditation, but anything that lets me become isolated from the world and zoned into myself. Yes, I am trying to find inner peace.

One problem I use to have is that I couldn’t get comfortable when I was meditating. But over the years I have perfected “getting comfortable”. So I thought I would put it all in a post to help you out.


at peace with myself

Before Meditation I have a “Slow Down”

You can’t just say “Okay I’m going to start meditating. You need to wind down a bit. Maybe have a bath or shower. Let your day wash off of you before you start your meditation. I usually need at least 15 minutes after I get home from work before I can even think of starting an effective meditation.

I need to be Comfortable

There is nothing worse than mediating and 30 minutes in you start feeling a cramp coming on because you are not comfortable. My first tip is not to skimp on the place you meditate. Spend the extra 20 dollars on a more comfortable yoga mat. If you meditate in bed, make sure you have a comfortable bed that will support you evenly. Without being comfortable you are never going to be effective in your meditation.

Lighting and Quiet from the Outside World

Make sure your mediation area is relatively dark (maybe some candles) and doors are closed so you can’t be distracted by the outside world.


getting comfortable

Music / Sounds

Some people are able to meditate in silence. Unfortunately I am unable to do this. There are a couple of reasons for this. Firstly I suffer from Tinnitus (ringing in the ears). Background noise blocks this out for me. The second reason is that it gives me something to focus on when my mind starts to wander. Once I’m in the zone I’m okay, but during the lead in, it helps me not lose my concentration.

Remove Distractions

While it is easier said than done, you need to remove outside influences. Here are a couple of ways I do that:

  • Write it down – If you know you need to do something later, just write it down so you can forget it now and concentrate on relaxing.
  • Turn your phone off – this one is pretty self explanatory.
  • Try to do it with no one else in the house – Having someone else in the house is a distraction, even if it is only subconsciously.

I hope that helps you with when you are preparation and getting comfortable for your meditation session. Here is another webpage that will also help you out.

This entry was posted on February 27, 2015, in meditation.

Soul for the Soul – Japanese Style

Out of all the countries I’ve been to, there is one country that stands well and truly above the rest when we are talking about having soul. That country is Japan.

Japan is that little country floating off the side of Asia with 127 million people in it. It has as much history as anywhere in the world, and what I believe to be the most interesting.


Thank you Google maps!

And from it’s deep history, until now, is pure soul food. Now why do I think that the country is full of soul? Let me explain…

Family is important

I have never been somewhere that cherishes it’s family so much. Often several generations live under the same roof. I love this. This has to be great for the soul. Dinner is always eaten together and lessons are taught from generation to generation. This is so different to the rest of the world, where some grand children may only see their grand parents once a year and the first thing they want is not lessons, but presents!


Japanese itself is a very difficult language to learn. It can take years to master. There are some great language software packages that help make learning Japanese easier and it’s well worth the effort, as it is a beautiful language. The written words of Japanese just makes me feel relaxed. This is especially so when it is written in calligraphy, which is an art form in itself.

Origami paper folding

The Japanese have made an art form for folding paper. Some of the more complex creations can take weeks to learn. They can be ever so intricate. Making these paper creations is very relaxing and lets you be one with yourself.


I’ve already mentioned how important family is to the Japanese. This comes from a strong culture. There is far too much to write about in a 500 word post, but I found a great article that looks in depth about it. Click here for a lot more information.

ZaZen (Zen Meditation) Zen Buddhism

ZaZen has been around for thousands of year and is a meditative discipline typically related to a religious practice. The meaning and method of zazen varies from place to place, but in general it can be regarded as a means of insight into the nature of existence. Zazen is basically just sitting and suspending all judgmental thinking and letting words, ideas, images and thoughts pass by without getting involved in them. It is one of the most relaxing practices once you get the hang of it.